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Update – Social Isolation

It’s been a while since I’ve done an actual update right? I usually just repost my Quora answers here and don’t really do actual blog posts anymore.

Well, that’s probably because for the past 2 years nothing especially interesting has happened in my life besides depressing things. In Jan 2018, I made a life-altering mistake to take out 3 personal loans to dump into crypto – because I thought it was only a temporary dip – turned out to be a full on crash – I lost 80% of my crypto money – including $80k in profit. that means I had lost in total about $150k in crypto – a fact I verified by looking at my Gemini ballances. In order to pay back the loan, I was forced to renovate + sell my SF apartment. Then I subsequently lost the proceeds / profit of my SF apartment in a massive crypto scam (QuadrigaCX). So I ended up in Vancouver with basically nothing, no money/savings, no job, no friends, and desperate for a place to live. At the time I needed to find a place fast so I looked on craiglist, and found the cheapest place that was stiill in Vancouver and the landlord knew that I was in a desperate situation and took advantage of me. 

I only lived in that Vancouver place for like half the year, since I was traveling in Korea/San Francisco/Toronto other times and moved out early. The place was terrible, it was a one room that I had to share with 5-6 other housemates, the bed was crawling with bugs when I got there, and the landlord was a total asshole. I was so sick of that landlord. He was completely paranoid, he installed a kitchen camera to take videos of people to make sure they are following the house rules which is ridiculous and probably illegal, always blamed me for breaking house rules, fined me several times for things as small as leaving dishes in the sink too long, raised my rent because I ‘used too much electricity’, took all the rent in cash (probably evading taxes I figure), and to top it all off, he took 85% of my security deposit in the end. I should have known. He wrote in the contract that he was entitled to all my security deposit if I broke any house rules – I didn’t read the contract carefully enough as I was desperate at the time – and gave him two months rent ($1800 CAD) for first + last month’s rent. Then in Feb, he asked me to pay the month’s rent and I told him, I thought he just deduct it from my security deposit and he said ‘that’s not how it works’. In retrospect, I should have known he was trying to get more money from me. It doesn’t make sense for him to ask me for more money since that security deposit included the last month’s rent. Anyways like a sucker, I paid him. Later that month I moved to Burnaby as I found a new place – MUCH better – not only living by myself, but now in a nice high rise building with a lovely balcony and view as well – the space is also MUCH bigger – it’s a big studio and the rent was only $500 more. But my landlord kept hounding me. Somehow a piece of garbage I had thrown out before, came back into the house and my landlord of course blamed me for it, so I had to pay $40 in Uber rides just to go back to my old apartment and throw out that piece of garbage. Then later that month I had to give him back the keys as my contract was up. He asked me to also give back the copy of the contract he had gave me for some reason. This was weird – he already had a copy of the contract why would he ask  for mine? Anyways just like a fool – I gave him the keys and contract back and he told me he was keeping the majority of my security deposit because I had ‘broken too many house rules’ which makes NO sense as I was only in the house half the year anyways! and it’s not liike I broke those rules on purpose. What I should have done was kept the keys from him until he gave me back my security deposit – what could he have done? evict me? I was already out of that place. Call the cops? I didnt do anything wrong. I should have stood up for mysellf more. Instead I let my landlord bully me and take all my money – like a sucker. Got scammed right after getting scammed. What a fool I  am.

I also finally got my taxes done – it was really complicated because of the QuadrigaCX scam last year – I ended up writing off a total of $576,000 CAD – I can apply half as capital losses to my capital gains in the future indefinitely. In addition – I finally sold the rest of my crypto holdings for $48k last month – this was when BTC finally went back up over $10k. I took the chance and sold everything. This was much less than what I could have gotten had I sold last summer – I would have made at least $55k-60k had I sold last summer – but I was a fool back then and was waiting for $100k for some reason. This year I wanted to really make amends for some of my previous mistakes I made over the past 2 years. One of those mistakes was holding crypto too long. So anyways, I took a loss of about $72k USD – I had initially invested $150k USD in crypto, but after subtracting everything I got out of crypto during the last 3 years, my total loss was $72k USD (or $96k CAD). That’s additional capital losses I will claim on my next year’s tax return, giving me a total of (($570k + $96k) / 2) = $333k CAD I can apply to capital gains in the future. This is probably enough to cover any capital gains for the next 20 years for me. 

In addition, I also decided to reconcile my relationship with my old friend Ethan – the main reason being that it was difficult to meet a friend who shares similar interests. Yes, I know I wrote a massive blog post about this guy in May 2018 about how much of  a douchebag he was – but I came to realize that I can probably put up with this just to have somebody I can talk to about tech, asia and games – it’s quite difficult to meet a good friend like that actually. So this was another mistake from the past 2 years I mended. 

 Speaking of making friends – yes it has been very difficult to me making friends in Vancouver. Part of the reason is because I work from home, so there’s no coworker ties to introduce me to new friends, which is how I made my best friend Tony in San Francisco. Another reason is the meetups in Vancouver are not as big as the meetups in SF even, and definitely not as big as the ones in Seoul. The last time I went to a meetup was last Oct, and the last time I met up for an actual event with my Vancouver friends was last June. That’s a long time ago. After last Oct, I was consistently busy after then. Nov – I was in San Francisco / took a Bahamas trip with my family. Dec – I was in Toronto / Orillia. Jan – I was in San Francisco, then I had to take a trip with my gf since she visited me in Vancouver, to Banff. Feb – I had to deal with moving all my stuff over to my new Burnaby apartment – took at least 2 rental cars over the course of 2 weekends to do it. And now this month – first I had to take a trip to Arizona  for a company retreat and then – coronavirus pandemic – can’t really go outside or go to any events much. 

So yeah.. quarantined just like everyone else at the moment. It doesn’t affect me all that much since I work from home and  am an introvert so its not too much of a lifestyle change from me – but it does make it even more difficult for me to meet anyone new in Vancouver. In addition, I have no idea when I can visit my gf in Korea. We’ve been trying to do video calls consistently but of course, I need to physically meet her sooner or later. I really hope the COVID-1 9 pandemic will subside soon but who knows – currently it’s affecting everything from our social relationships to the stock market (which I am currently shorting at the moment because I think a recession is inevitable at this point). I haven’t met anyone I know physically in almost a month (last time was my co-workers in Arizona). We’ll see how much longer this can go on, but it really feels like we’re living in a dystopian / post apocalyptic world where everyone outside are essentially infected zombies.