You find a girl that you like, submit your resume, a list of requirements and expectations that she may be looking for. Then if she decides that you’re worthy enough, you go on a series of interviews, which is a series of dates designed to help determine your fit for her. If you’re lucky, she’ll offer you a chance to go steady with her. A full time job as a long term commitment. If you’re rejected, then you’re rejected, and you go on looking for another girl you may have an interest in.